I don't know of a single seduction strategy that works all of the time. In fact, you'd pretty much waste your time if you were to search for one like that. But I do know of one that works most of the time. And that's the one we're going to talk about. And that's pretty important. Because, let's be real, most seduction strategies that are taught online suck. They really do. They'll either make you feel or look like a fool or they are just theory that doesn't play out well in the real world.
I doubt you want to deal with anything like that.
So let's get right to the seduction strategy that works most of the time.
And it's simply this: Learn how to position yourself as the funnest guy to be around. Wherever you are.
Now, there's a caveat to this. And that is, it doesn't mean you go out and act like a court jester or clown and put on a show. Nope. Because the court jester or clown rarely gets any play. He might be fun. And he might get a little attention. But he doesn't get any play.
Instead, you want to be the guy a woman can picture herself going out with and having a good time. The guy who'd be standing right beside her while she's being entertained by the clown or the court jester.
That's a very different guy to be.
It's the guy she's actually going to think about going home with. It's the guy she's actually going to flirt with. It's the guy she's actually going to pay attention to … after the clown is done entertaining her.
So how do you do that?
You actually become a fun guy to be around. Ain't no faking it. You gotta actually become that guy. And it ain't hard to do. In fact, it can be pretty easy. One way to become almost instantly more fun to be around is to DROP the habit of being too serious.
Ever been around someone who was way too serious all the time?
I bet you have. And I bet you wouldn't describe it as being fun. You might even describe it as being the complete OPPOSITE of being fun. Go to a club sometime and just scan the crowd. You'll see plenty of guys who are acting way too serious. And usually, they're standing against the wall. Or trying to get a drink at the bar. But they're not surrounded by women.
Not only will this seduction strategy make it a LOT easier for you to attract women. It'll have positive effects on your whole life. When you learn to drop the seriousness? You drop a lot of stress in the process. Which makes it easier to have fun. Which makes it easier to get the woman you want. Which means you'll have less stress anyway.
See how it all kind of goes full circle?
I doubt you want to deal with anything like that.
So let's get right to the seduction strategy that works most of the time.
And it's simply this: Learn how to position yourself as the funnest guy to be around. Wherever you are.
Now, there's a caveat to this. And that is, it doesn't mean you go out and act like a court jester or clown and put on a show. Nope. Because the court jester or clown rarely gets any play. He might be fun. And he might get a little attention. But he doesn't get any play.
Instead, you want to be the guy a woman can picture herself going out with and having a good time. The guy who'd be standing right beside her while she's being entertained by the clown or the court jester.
That's a very different guy to be.
It's the guy she's actually going to think about going home with. It's the guy she's actually going to flirt with. It's the guy she's actually going to pay attention to … after the clown is done entertaining her.
So how do you do that?
You actually become a fun guy to be around. Ain't no faking it. You gotta actually become that guy. And it ain't hard to do. In fact, it can be pretty easy. One way to become almost instantly more fun to be around is to DROP the habit of being too serious.
Ever been around someone who was way too serious all the time?
I bet you have. And I bet you wouldn't describe it as being fun. You might even describe it as being the complete OPPOSITE of being fun. Go to a club sometime and just scan the crowd. You'll see plenty of guys who are acting way too serious. And usually, they're standing against the wall. Or trying to get a drink at the bar. But they're not surrounded by women.
Not only will this seduction strategy make it a LOT easier for you to attract women. It'll have positive effects on your whole life. When you learn to drop the seriousness? You drop a lot of stress in the process. Which makes it easier to have fun. Which makes it easier to get the woman you want. Which means you'll have less stress anyway.
See how it all kind of goes full circle?