It's hard to even fathom the idea of being able to get back with your ex girlfriend if she isn't even speaking to you. Conventional wisdom would tell you that it's probably not going to happen if your ex girlfriend is giving you the silent treatment. That being said, conventional wisdom isn't always the best way to go when it comes to relationships. That's because conventional wisdom usually has to do with logic and relationships are anything but logical. We all know that on some level, yet for some reason, when we have relationship problems, we try to work on them from a logical point of view.
Yes, it probably does seem pretty much like things are hopeless if your ex girlfriend isn't talking to you, but you know what?
It doesn't have to stay that way.
Sure, you'd like to hear her voice again. You'd love to hear the sound of your name rolling off the tip of her tongue and hear her say something like, "I love you." But just because you are not hearing that just yet ... it doesn't mean that you won't hear that from her in the future.
What you have to do at first is to shirk conventional wisdom. Relationship problems are not solved with conventional wisdom, logic, or nerding out on theories of what might work.
After all - nerd logic usually doesn't work that well to attract women in the first place. It's not the nerdy guys who get all of the girls, right? If logic and conventional wisdom was the way to go ... it would be the nerds who were attracting all women and that totally is not the way that it goes.
Anyways, to get her back if she isn't speaking to you, the one thing that you must do is: Act like it DOESN'T phase you at all.
Why?
Because that is the OPPOSITE of what a logical person would do.
The logical man would say, well I need to communicate with my ex girlfriend just how much it hurts me that she isn't talking to me.
But you know what?
He might as well be saying that to a brick wall.
Because, it isn't going to be heard by her. At least, not in the way that he wants it to be heard. It's going to be heard like this: "I'm weak and I need your attention and affection or else I don't feel like a man."
Yep.
That is the way that she is going to hear it.
Even if she doesn't quite realize it.
Because that is what her emotions are going to hear. And if you don't know it yet, relationships (especially on a woman's end) are emotionally driven.
So, the one thing that you must do is act like it doesn't phase you one bit.
Act like you could care less about the fact that she is not speaking to you right now and in time, you might just hear her say all of the things that you want your ex girlfriend to say to you ...
"I love you."
"I need you."
"I want you."
Conventional wisdom might be good to build your financial portfolio or to choose a car or a career. But, it ain't going to help you out one bit if you want your ex girlfriend back and she isn't speaking to you right now.
That's just the way that it is and you need to be able to accept that.
Yes, it probably does seem pretty much like things are hopeless if your ex girlfriend isn't talking to you, but you know what?
It doesn't have to stay that way.
Sure, you'd like to hear her voice again. You'd love to hear the sound of your name rolling off the tip of her tongue and hear her say something like, "I love you." But just because you are not hearing that just yet ... it doesn't mean that you won't hear that from her in the future.
What you have to do at first is to shirk conventional wisdom. Relationship problems are not solved with conventional wisdom, logic, or nerding out on theories of what might work.
After all - nerd logic usually doesn't work that well to attract women in the first place. It's not the nerdy guys who get all of the girls, right? If logic and conventional wisdom was the way to go ... it would be the nerds who were attracting all women and that totally is not the way that it goes.
Anyways, to get her back if she isn't speaking to you, the one thing that you must do is: Act like it DOESN'T phase you at all.
Why?
Because that is the OPPOSITE of what a logical person would do.
The logical man would say, well I need to communicate with my ex girlfriend just how much it hurts me that she isn't talking to me.
But you know what?
He might as well be saying that to a brick wall.
Because, it isn't going to be heard by her. At least, not in the way that he wants it to be heard. It's going to be heard like this: "I'm weak and I need your attention and affection or else I don't feel like a man."
Yep.
That is the way that she is going to hear it.
Even if she doesn't quite realize it.
Because that is what her emotions are going to hear. And if you don't know it yet, relationships (especially on a woman's end) are emotionally driven.
So, the one thing that you must do is act like it doesn't phase you one bit.
Act like you could care less about the fact that she is not speaking to you right now and in time, you might just hear her say all of the things that you want your ex girlfriend to say to you ...
"I love you."
"I need you."
"I want you."
Conventional wisdom might be good to build your financial portfolio or to choose a car or a career. But, it ain't going to help you out one bit if you want your ex girlfriend back and she isn't speaking to you right now.
That's just the way that it is and you need to be able to accept that.